life is like this

The path we choose in our life, we wouldn't know what's coming up... or rather waiting for us. For that particular time, we thought that was the great move we took. Yes, indeed. For that particular time.

I choose to marry a guy I hardly knew. Met & date him just 3 weeks before he proposed me. That was one of the greatest move I had ever made.

Things happened in our life, but how we take it... it depends on how we want it to be.

Just came to know about a friend. Long lost friend. Didn't have the life she wanted it to be. The way she dreamt about. She considered her marriage life a failure... twice... and she had already stop thinking about greatest thing she went thru with us(the friends), and another greatest things waiting for her.

I felt so sad, not because of what she faced thru with both marriage... but on how she takes it.

When I met my other friends during our school gathering, the atmosphere was of course different from the one we had when we were in school. Those day.. it was more like... senior junoir things... but on that day... it was us... the people form the same school. We do not know who are the seniors and what more... the juniors.

Amongst us... some are married with numbers of kids, some are just married, some are married but still didn't have the chance to have any kids yet, some are pregnant, some are divorcee, some are with the new hubby, some are without (still looking I guessed) even some are still confused. There are friends who are employees (like me), employer, doing own business and even doing MLM. Some of us are with the perfect figures, out of figures, no figures (hee hee hee). Some are with coloured hair, with the scarff, "durians" hair, Botox, poyo, etc.....

We came from the same school. Studied in the same class. Being thought by the same teacher... and yet we still can see the big difference when we met them... WHY....

BECAUSE LIFE IS LIKE THIS

Things changed in our life. Because we change them. We want it to be that way.
To those who think that their life are difficult. Look on the positive side. We have to go thru this life... and change them the way we want it. Let the past support todays strength.