Dilema

When I was in UiTM... one of the paper that i need to study is the psychology. This is one of the paper that I loved most... at that time.... Understanding human behavior... understanding the perceptions.... by the look... the gesture... the voice... and the writing... so on and so forth...

Well this is not what I'm gonna say today.... here...
I'm not specialize in it... but somehow it has helped me to gain something...

This is what I want to share...

KADANG-KADANG ADALAH LEBIH BAIK KITA TIDAK TAHU TENTANG KEBENARAN... KERANA KADANG-KADANG KEBENARAN ITU BOLEH MENYAKITKAN... DAN MEMBUATKAN KITA DALAM DILEMA...

Had a communication with a friend this morning... She had just came to know that the sister's husband had an affair with his ex-girlfriend.... and the worst part is... the husband had kept the secret for quite sometimes.... years maybe....

She found out... that the husband's ex is married ....

(Rasanya baru saya tulis tentang monyet pertama sebelum nih.... )

Lets continue....

So now... both of them are married...

What & how should the sister act now??... marahkan suami? marahkan ex- girlfriend suami? marahkan situasi? atau marahkan diri sendiri?....

I don't know... If I were to be in this situation ( hope not ) I might cry.... " What have I done wrong... ".... that could be it.... Saya pernah berkata dengan diri sendiri... "jika ditakdirkan satu hari nanti suami saya berkahwin lagi satu.... emmm.... biarlah kerana itu sudah takdirnya... bukan kerana kesilapan saya" benar.... ini yang saya fikirkan... sejak dari awal perkahwinan saya.... tapi tak pernah lah saya bersuara kepada suami saya.... nak mati aper....??
Well itu kenyataannya... bila hakikat tiba... saya tak pasti keadaan saya masa itu....

Come back to my friend's situation....
Bagaimana the sister berfikir... how she behave then... adalah bergantung kepada pengalaman hidupnya dengan suaminya.....

Let's look further.... to the "ex-girlfriend...."
Why she behave that way.... why would she treat the husband that way.... how could she make other women suffer.....

Well that too... depend on how the ex-girlfriend relationship with her husband.... and what the ex-girlfriend experience with my friends brother in law....

This will contribute or rather answer the question.... WHY....

If the ex-girlfriend had a good life with the husband.... she would't layan that guy... and vice versa....

If I were in the "ex" situation... what would I do.... erkkkk???? me??? God help me.....
Dilema lah I...... apa lagi....... Seronok mungkin... sebab mcm baru bercinta.... tapi sampai bila???

Those who read this.... be in both situation....
Be fair to both wifes & be fair to both husbands
I'm sure... it happens a lot out there...
This is one of those being told to me....

Monyet Pertama

Siapa itu monyet pertama... ??

Tell me if you never had one...

Everyone pernah face monyet ini..... itu adalah pengalaman pertama yang menyeronokkan.... Me and my hubby pernah bercerita tentang monyet pertama ini..... My hubby ada..... monyet pertama masa time tadika... as for me my monyet pertama, when I was in primary school... standard 1 or 2.... tak ingat sangat dah....

Monyet my hubby... sampai lower 6.... hampir kawin.... tapi tak der jodoh.... My monyet ?? emmmmm..... tergendala sebab salah faham.... itupun masa upper six baru dapat monyet kedua.... tapi kalu dah upper 6... umur dah 19 tahun... bukan lah monyet lagi.....

Monyet ??? ya cinta monyet.... cinta masa zaman sekolah2 rendah.... & menengah....

Baru2 nih ada terjumpa ngan my monyet.... memang lawak.... member dah kawin anak 1.... manakala myself dah 4....

My kids...

Pun dah mula ada cinta monyet..... mana I tau.... sbb anak2 tak pernah berahsia ngan mamanya ini... dan mamanya quite open minded

To me, cinta monyet bukanlah satu dosa.... ia hanyalah perasaan suka yang hadir lebih awal dari waktu yang sepatutnya... in which... sebenarya kita tak tau bila patutnya kita bercinta.... tau2 ajer dah suka....

Cintakan tak mengenal usia....

From my Adorable Kids

Happy Mother's Day...

It has been a week... since the celebration....
The feeling is still closed to me...
I'm a mother of four...
Have a mother, mother in law... and my dearest granny...

A day before, I've got some gift from Sarah & Ammar... whilst Syasya & Azim on the day itself.
Personally, I felt very touched with their thoughts.. seriously ....

A hug, kiss and love would be okay or should I say more than enough with me... but they go to the extend of buying things with their own pocket money... they put aside some for the past 2 weeks... just to show their ....... my goodness... I'm speechless.. no word could describe.....

Their thoughts... makes me crying inside... and still.....

Love them so much...
They are the greatest gifts from Allah

Nur Syasya Turns 9

Syasya dah 9 Tahun on 5/5/2009

As usual, I took cuti to be with her on that day...
She requested cup cakes for the friends....

Since that morning I was occupied with other things... termasuklah p amik IC Azim... I only managed to complete the 45 cuppies at 2.30pm... Azim & Ammar hantarkan...
Tapi sempat lah jugak makan kat Mc D... pagi tuh.... sbb dekat ngan JPN & dah tak tau mana nak makan lagik.... Mc D pun Mc D lah.....



b' fast kat Mc D...


cuppies for friends

Sunday 11/5 baru ada kesempatan untuk celebrate kat rumah....
Again baked the cake for her...
and the best part ialah my hubby grilled lamb... so that sunday night... we had...mushoroom & chic soup with garlic bread... grilled lamb shoulder... baked potato.... salad... and sky juice....



choc cake with fondant deco


The dinner we had.... sos cili jangan lupa ya.... i'm typical malaysian



lain2 pun teringin juga ada kek sendiri... so decorate lah sendiri.....

Mama & Papa.. sayang kan Syasya...

Semoga Allah sentiasa melindungi anak mama & memerikan Syasya kekuatan... keberkatan di dunia dan di akhirat.... Bijak... menghormati orang lain.... serta sentiasa disayangi oleh semua orang...